you cant live a certain way because someone tells you to
you live the life god has destined for you to live
im pretty sure there is no normal
anyone in the bible never had a normal life,
they just lived out what they knew in their soul
you live out the passions,
the desires he has put in your life
regardless of what others say
regardless and above all, love the lord with all your heart, mind and soul. DO these things and that is where true life begins